Traditionally, most of the
Koreans have had tendency to count and keep their birthday by the lunar
calendar. Thus my wife's birthday was supposed to be celebrated by the
family members on August 12 in this year as her birthday of July 3rd counted
by the lunar calendar falls on August 12 by solar
calendar.
Mostly Korean senior folks are
treated by their kids on their birthday. It has been unexceptional in my
family too.
I have three married daughters and
an unmarried son. My wife and I were informed a week ago by our daughters that
they wanted to hold a birthday party for mom on August 7th a week before the
actual birthday as they would be tight on or around next
weekend.
Therefore, we were invited to a
five-star hotel, Palace, in Seoul to enjoy wife's 59th birthday party sponsored
by daughters , son and son-in-laws.
Frankly speaking, regardless of
whatever our kids have prepared and treated mom and daddy at a fancy place, the
old couple needs an exclusive atmosphere again on the actual birthday to
exchange birthday celebrations even sitting at a honky-tonk because it will
surely serve to give earnest meaning to the old.
Having had a kind of countrified
diet habit, I have barely enjoyed eating hotel buffet cuisine. However, last
night at the hotel buffet restaurant, I emptied 3 dishful of food as they were
particularly delicious to me, which ,I am afraid, may fizzle out my weight loss
challenge.
Though she survives relying on
dialysis treatment every other day, last night at the restaurant, she seemed to
have been highly jazzed up while listening to the birthday song presented by
lovely grandchildren. It was a happy evening for me too.
From the right: 1st son-in-law, 3rd daughter, 1st daughter,
granddaugther from the 1st daughter,
wife, me and 3rd son-in-law with his son on his back. As my only son
had left earlier for another
appointment and my 2nd daughter's family is presently living in Tokyo,
Japan, they are absent from
this photo.
Wife is singing together with lovely grandchildren > |